tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4242624993628806583.post6978940428211182977..comments2019-06-07T15:34:40.265-06:00Comments on through the looking glass: blank.camille nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01899162307159896474noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4242624993628806583.post-77810159832119022832011-08-02T11:40:57.739-06:002011-08-02T11:40:57.739-06:00One month is definitely not enough. that's why...One month is definitely not enough. that's why the minimum maternity leave here in the US is really around six weeks, and that really isn't enough anyways! I'd say three months. Three months is when the sleep and eating patterns stabilize. You're just rolling with the punches until then. You're not really in charge, the baby is. <br /><br />So, until three months... really don't worry about it. :)Kaciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06374573594800663980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4242624993628806583.post-68161488543077889302011-08-01T20:46:11.371-06:002011-08-01T20:46:11.371-06:00Oh Sister, rest assured you are not in this alone....Oh Sister, rest assured you are not in this alone. I think you are going through the same thing that every new mom is going through right this very moment. Have you heard that in the olden days the women would have a 40 day laying in after they had a baby? There was a lot of wisdom there. REST REST REST!!!! give baby to daddy so you can have a shower. And do things in 5's fold 5 pieces of laundry, wash 5 dishes, set the timer for 5 minutes and do some stretching. It will help you feel like you are getting something done if even just a little at a time. You are NORMAL!!! THIS is NORMAL! and you will get through this, part of your feelings are also hormone related, so take it easy and keep that at the forefront of your mind. LOVE you girl, I will pray for you. <br /><br />P.S. make sure you are getting outside for some fresh air everyday if possible.Staceyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14219651342782649066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4242624993628806583.post-312374209973439982011-08-01T17:13:08.525-06:002011-08-01T17:13:08.525-06:00You are doing what is NEEDED right now! Do not be...You are doing what is NEEDED right now! Do not beat yourself up with these expectations. Remember it took 10 months to create the baby and at least 10 months to get back to "normal". But remember, that "normal" is now different, you have someone else to care for now. Relax. Enjoy snuggle time w/baby and some hubby time. Most importantly, time for Cami too. Try smaller goals, like for today (and only today) I will make sure that I have showered. Bonus if you get 2 showers in a week. :) It will take time. You will figure out a schedule/system that works for you. Another thing that can help: Remember that baby will be baby for only so long, then he'll be walking/talking and you'll have a new "normal" to get use to. <br /><br />Fear not: You WILL sleep again. You WILL be able to eat a hot meal right when its served again. You WILL have coherent thoughts again.<br /><br />Hugs from a mama of a 9, 7, and 5 year old and I remember the lack of sleep, and desperate need of sleep/adult conversation/and showers. ;)<br />tammy HCozyStitcheshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17931445351395256427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4242624993628806583.post-15184630941174090902011-08-01T16:52:26.585-06:002011-08-01T16:52:26.585-06:00You're doing good. Keeping yourself alive, ke...You're doing good. Keeping yourself alive, keeping a baby alive (on the best stuff on earth, no less!), and resting are your jobs right now. Give it a month or two more and things will start to get back to normal, but it's a process; and normal will always look a bit different. :)<br /><br />Sincerely,<br />The mom of a 15 month old who still frequently chooses sleep over workouts!Rachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00539628551735497651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4242624993628806583.post-53327195579238573272011-08-01T16:13:38.902-06:002011-08-01T16:13:38.902-06:00I agree with everything that girl above said.I agree with everything that girl above said.Kathy Damp/Kathleen Damp Wrighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04758791666744575408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4242624993628806583.post-41768268765004891592011-08-01T15:37:16.396-06:002011-08-01T15:37:16.396-06:00so right. cammie, i still feel a mess after nine m...so right. cammie, i still feel a mess after nine months! (granted, i have a child that still does NOT sleep through the night...i get so angry at mamas with babies ellies age that sleep like 14 hours...oh what i would DO with 14 hours.) anyway. I want to tell you that working out is the last thing you need to be worried about girl! I was talking to a couple women at my church (one who is in her 60s) and she was saying that when she was a mom, there wasn't the expectation of the woman getting back into shape...they just took care of their kids. People didn't expect it of them. We face so many pressures to look a certain way AND be great mamas AND cook organic food AND have a cute house AND do DIY projects. ha! I am learning that life really is about maintaining. Taking a shower, eating, picking up the toys yet again. It's just over and over and over. That's why I find so much comfort in the fact that I have a resurrected Savior that gives me hope that this is NOT all that my life will amount to. I feel like when I understand that, it is only then that I can take joy in those small, mundane tasks that no one will ever praise me for.<br /><br />Sorry for the novel I just wrote, but I understand the need for encouragement. I am by no means on the "other side," but thought this might be of some encouragement to your weary self today.The Winkler'shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17491813679942230983noreply@blogger.com